What is the easiest way to catch a liar?

If you are good at analysis, or if you got great logic, and you do not easily forget situations and the words pronounced by the person who lied to you, you can catch a liar easily. One thing more, the advent of high technology cameras, include CCTV's, that is one great proof. You can never miss.

But why you need to catch a lying person? If that person is a hopeless liar, it would be easy to catch him her. But what if the person is more intelligent than you are? Especially with men, they will not tell you truth of extra- marital cases. Even if you feel by your gut that he is lying, he will not accept it when confronted with. So, i guess you should let yourself live better by forgetting that someone is lying. The wish to catch a liar means you believed you have control over the person's life. That is actually one big reason why the person lied. He wanted freedom from the person controlling him her.

Let the person to him her self. Let him lie for all you care. Only if you can. If not, be ready that your peaceful life is lost wondering how you can catch a liar. By then, you will learn to choose. I am not saying all i had written here is true. But let yourself a chance: live peacefully by letting that person do what he likes, and learn from his mistakes. And he, learn from hist mistakes.

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Lourdes M. Cabrera, self-studies in human psychology