What is a fun psychological trick to try on someone?
Look people in the eye when you pass them in the street.
I read about this fun little game in The 4-Hour Workweek as an exercise to build confidence.
Here’s how it works:
- Establish eye contact with people as you’re about to cross paths.
- Hold it as long as you can.
This achieves two things:
- You’ll look more confident to others. “Whoa! I’m getting noticed! Why does he/she look at me? What black magic is this?”
- You’ll become more confident the longer you play, for one simple reason: 99.9% of people will look away first.
I sometimes play this for 10, 15 minutes at a time and not a single person “wins” around against me - by the time we pass by they look away. It’s a great way to make you feel really good about yourself, really fast.
Trust me, this is hilarious. Especially when you look at people like this
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